The child likes to be before everybody project oneself, acquire contented move from which, but of the child " good performance " can let parents feel awkwardness is mixed again have a headache, and most those who make parents intractable is, they do not want to be in " everybody is fixed eyes on " a farce acts in all with his child below the circumstance. So, what method can let the child change " good performance " disposition?
Want to solve this problem, how do parents should know the child above all think? Here, we let everybody return those very familiar life setting, discuss inner world of the child jointly, probably " the answer " with respect to amid.
Camera lens one
A day, small but mom's staff comes the thing talks in the home, mother will be young can arrange see cartoon into the house. Just sat calm, small can run, reveal the small tank that father buys to him to the guest, want to recite the Chinese Phonetic Alphabet of just society for the guest again then, even the guest accompanies him to play. In mom check below, he just leaves angrily, but one in an instant he is in the sitting room mad run...
Child monologize: Came eventually a person that does not know.
Analytic:
Daily life of the child has the law relatively mostly, when new person or thing appear suddenly in his invariable surroundings, often can behave very excitedly. And parents because hindered to be loosened at feelings,restrain to his right now, this virtually more the excitement that increased him is spent. Because cerebrum restrains a function neurologically to still be not perfected, once excitement rises, the child often is very difficult inside short time calm. This also is a person more, the child likes more " the person comes mad " one of reasons.
Camera lens 2
Holding wedding to new personality. The not very when small Jing Ping loves a talk, disposition is very indrawn also. "Small static much perkier today! " with the boast of ground of aunt ceremony sex of the desk she is one sentence. "I can carry children's song on the back! " little static happy ground says to the aunt. "Be? That back listens to us! " the aunt amuses her. The back that did not think of small Jing Jingzhen had the children's song that learns in nursery school, it is in complimentary sound of everybody, carried on the back another, mom calls her to stop, she manages to also be paid no attention to...
Child monologize: The opportunity is done not have after or else is behaved.
Analytic:
The child has the desire of project oneself. A lot of children that do not like show it seems that at ordinary times are not not to think project oneself actually, be not worth as a result of condition of oneself of a few such as however, cannot compete with other child, wait for objective reason without the appropriate environment, appreciate that cannot get others, just do not have the opportunity of project oneself. Once the opportunity comes, they also often are met come out oneself good qualities expression very gladly, with period the affirmation that can get others.
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