Doesn't “ of too capricious adult have the child method ” ?
This period a case that we discuss ” of capricious girl of a “ .
The parents that believes amount to is not little has encountered such headaching thing: The child is lively and clever and bright, lovely, but disposition is particularly big, what thing is notting comply she, initiate disposition with respect to irremediable, cry to be troubled by greatly greatly, do not be troubled by so that the family makes an apology swear not to stop.
The word of complier: The child is the hope of every family not only, it is the future of the motherland and mankind more. But we are heard ceaselessly however and see the fact that accepts enroach on about minor crime, minor, all parents do not hope to produce this. We ought to be in rear the child meticulously while, of the formation that pays close attention to its disposition more, heart grow.
Children psychologist thinks, regard a family as a member, the generation of problem of child psychology behavior is the reason of its individual not just, follow a family however other member and this association mode of the child have very big concern. When the problem of certain psychology behavior that discovers the child when parents, teacher needs to correct, must from the association mode proceed with between change family member, such ability achieve the goal that changes problem of behavior of this child psychology finally.
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The expression of ” of problem of “ psychology behavior
Wen Wen this year 9 years old, it is parental a beloved daughter as a child. When the child is cute, indeed provoking love, can dance of song be apt to, expressive force is powerful, in the home, lao father is contending for grandma of father mother, grandfather, grandmother to be fond of her. Wen Wen, true also try to make a good showing, everything wants adult to had said only, remember, and it is good to be done particularly. Say chamber pot for example this thing, because mom has told her, oneself thing wants him to work, after getting up in the morning everyday so, wen him Wen accomplishs whole thing that pours chamber pot.
But Wen Wen has a quite big problem —— too capricious. What thing is gotten by her, be inferior to her meaning, she can get angry, cry be troubled by, who says to be used without giving thought to. Father mother showed head for this injury. Although they admonish again and again child “ you next time again also must not repeat ” , but unpleasant thing still is happening: This day of early in the morning, mom is worn urgently should go to work, dropped the chamber pot of Wen Wen in a hurry. Is this returned Oh? Wen Wen did not work immediately, crying to say greatly: Why should you pour “ chamber pot? This is my thing! ” disposition is jumped over even more big, perpetual, the eye looks at mom to went to work to also be delayed, that also is no good! Finally still must be the Wen Wen that adult yields —— cries so that smoke one choke, taking chamber pot to walk into a toilet, from toilet bowl dip answers “ this oneself ” make water that pour, fall afresh, just calculate come to an end!
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