Everybody needs to praise. Praise resemble sunshine same, without it we cannot grow. Shakespeare says: We get “ the pay that praising is us. ”
If a behavior always is,laudatory glamour depends on immediately afterwards a happy ending, so the formation that anybody repeats apt this act and makes is used to, this is behavior learns an original hypothesis. To confirm this, they had the test of countless. In experiment, 30 pupil are divided to be 3 groups, successive 5 days, have arithmetical test everyday. A group of students get the teacher is opposite first and last before them of second test result praise, praise, another group receives criticism all the time, and the 3rd group criterion by desolate aside, be indifferent to sth, be raised considerably by laudatory child achievement; The child that is criticized also some are improved, but not quite apparent; By the student that negligence pays no attention to, their achievement is without progress. Making what the person is interested is, the student to criticism report with study poorer ability not beautiful, they need to praise and be praised. In fact, laudatory strength effect at child heart later, will produce a variety of effect. It is a Shuang Renjian, can change the student's destiny, also can become the student's arrogant and complacent disaster water. Want to accomplish effectively assist aesthetic to be born, not be a tickler absolutely, need to accomplish only the following enough at 3 o'clock.
One, you need good to the student deed to give praise in time. Want a student to show good deed only, the teacher should encourage aggrandizement in time, consolidate this is planted behavior, as time passes, the student is used to with respect to nurturance is natural and can abiding good deed. In education, some classmate exercise progressed, I place a scrip when correct immediately, there is “ above you progressed ” ! This piece of small scrip, can produce boundless magic power, make of this classmate it is good to work at.
2, the real success that you need assist beautiful student to obtain. The student's real proper pride comes from at obtaining a few delectable but the achievement of congratulate, and come from a teacher to praise just is to prove these success. This can help a student establish self-respect, increase overcome difficulty, solve the ability of the problem. But if too optional, the student cannot know why he can be praised clearly. In laudatory moment, you should tell his your laudatory the reason, he also can continue to be behaved well accordingly.
3, praised word should be accorded with actual, do not want exaggerate. Often give the student with self-conscious good where to praise phonily, after the child exceeds certain age level, he will be more sensitive just compare with other child photograph each at be in, generate psychological pressure; Also can make sensible student feels the teacher is hypocritical, make praise lose powerful effect.
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