You did parental person, I want to have probably to the child same kind experience, that is the child it is a medium sun, it is the close kin in pa Mom heart the baby to love. “ is held in both hands be afraid of in the hand broke, contain in the mouth to be afraid of changed ” , it is a such words. The joy that lets us fill fission check to do father and mother and experience jazzily, also love because of this kind just about however, be in sometimes virtually however be used to became bad the child, on the problem that makes we are teaching the child confused, hesitation, be at a loss what to do a bit even.
I am fast the mom of 3 years old of children, my daughter Ni Ni is the child with a bright natural disposition, disposition is lively, very rich sympathize with a heart, but disposition compares stubborn. Her advantage lets me feel gratified, however her disposition often is enraged so that I drop tear again however.
The father of Ni Ni is a soldier, work in city again. Our parents is not beside, the heavy responsibility that be brought up so and teachs the child falls obligatorily to my one the individual's shoulder. Accordingly, how be very fond of the child, how is certainly child myself is in holding. Want to say to be very fond of the child, now is, who does not ache not to love? But our ten million cannot doting child, be used to became bad the child, also killed the child. Perhaps be the influence of the education that loves as a child because of me, my Guan Nini is stricter, custom is much also. My pa Mom often says: “ sapling does not repair worthless, do not have custom to cannot become circumference. ” so, I never coddle Ni Ni, for instance at ordinary times her err thing, I never because of her the age is small and indulge her, self-surrender her, wrong with respect to criticism, right praise, let the child know dispute to be punished to wrong, award as a child trenchant, can let the child again small error gradually the edge is reduced greatly into the possibility of big mistake. Here, I remembered in one's childhood mom gives me the story that tell again: A boy takes the thing of others with respect to conveniently as a child, his mom does not check again, consider as bagatelle affection, development became hardened thief to him later, when larcener is become to be chained and thrown into prison eventually after be brought up ability afterthought not reachs his mom, regret when the son makes small fault, do not have be corrected in time and caused blunder, dot is not sensible, it is incorrect that he does not know the thing that takes others home again, your Excellency when us so he should guide correctly when discovery, ten million cannot ignore this.
Child of respecting be used to, my neighbour staged a tragedy of doting child. Her practice had caused undesirable consequence to the child, can have a meal from the child case, she lets the child eat again euqally as been chew with respect to what do all sorts of meal, child of for fear that is bitten do not move, the stomach of result child is bad, the tooth is bad also. In nursery school, do not eat even apple, pear, and do not arrive 6 years old begin grow permanent teeth, this became half tooth, what the hospital hears on also is a doctor blame. The function of the person's tooth is masticatory thing, she does not allow the play action with the child's normal tooth however, can you make mistake? So we want learn a lesson, all doting children that divide nevertheless again, killed the child however in that way. Actually, competent parent guides the child to walk, not competent parents replaces the child to walk. Regarding as is not analphabetic us, ought not to be latter.
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