The teachs the child principle that the reputed founder of the Ix Dynasty of educationist Liu carry on of older generation advances is:
※ does not care the child too, ask him at any time such in that way. Exceeding of children of very easy nurturance is egocentric
Psychology.
※ does not want too close child, if hour and adult are together, its are depended on or self-abased psychology is broken quite hard.
※ does not give the child all things that he means. The child should know as a child the right and justice
The relation of Wu. Endless obligation, cannot enjoy the right.
※ does not want bribery child. Parents is sometimes avoid the child temporarily annoy, often take monetary article to give the child, this
Be equal to those who reward them is roily, the habit that he coerces nurturance.
※ does not cheat the child. After child disclosure gets cheat, to parental accredit the heart can disappear.
※ does not want meaningless intimidate child, be frightened only and be no good, everything admonishs after, the child of course won't comply with.
※ is not criticized in public before the child or mock him, the psychology with lest spiteful or bashful nurturance.
※ does not argue before the child penalty. Parental view is differ, the child with respect to not know what to do.
※ is not right the child is too severe, lest his nurturance exceeding is awe-stricken heart, or the disposition that look familiar heart is not.
※ does not want too complimentary child. The child works to be not differred, state praise is OK slightly. Exceeding is complimentary, look
The psychology of easy nurturance fish for fame and compliments.
※ does not allude the child to do bad thing constantly.
※ appropriate the gift of bright examine child, not loath he becomes ability force not the thing of close, do not be the child with his definite idea
Decide what to learn.
※ allows the child's sufficient swing, the action that wants him only did not give normal practice more, do not go interfering him, the activity is
The mother of all study.
When ※ admonitory child, stress is held composed, you Ji borrows the child with vent one's anger.
The activity of ※ children jumps over orbit occasionally, appropriate Dai Yiliang's good activity. Prevent flat-out, turn over not easy effects.
Appropriate helps the child analyse his environment, measure his action; Help him resolve difficulty, is not to replace him completely to resolve difficulty. Children grows more, should more can him arrange general affairs, parents more cannot exceed one's duties and meddle in others' affairs. Of the nurturance of character and morals and physical strength promotional, all come by the exercise.