Parents is hit spell the world, child native place staying behind. This one phenomenon can bring the improvement of economic atmosphere to the family, but also can bring about at the same time " flower " the psychological problem after be being ignored.
Mr Liu that comes from county of water of Chongqing city Peng keep a garrison post tells institute of normal school of the Yangtse River maths is " 3 go to the countryside " the young volunteer that serves a group, because oneself are long-term outer, the child is by in charge of of grandfather, grandma. Through depart of a year, mr Liu discovers his son small brave acquired not little bad habit, disposition is barpque, disposition is dissocial, study result glides badly, tongue-lash oneself grandfather, grandma unexpectedly sometimes. Like small brave such children staying behind is protecting the home to press down be widespread presence, volunteer Chen Xiaofeng tells a reporter say.
Be aimed at such as of occurrence existence of children staying behind the psychological problem such as difference of fragile, recreant, viability, capricious, chill, indrawn, loneliness. On July 11, maths of institute of normal school of Chongqing mayor river is " 3 go to the countryside " service group prepared to construct in its abode " sunshine dak " . "Sunshine dak " basically accept local children staying behind, farmer to be versed in psychology seeks advice, begin children staying behind, farmer to be versed in filial art grooms. Late on July 12, this service group accepted more than 20 when come round to seek advice children staying behind and its guardian first.
"Sunshine dak " psychological advisory division fastens Yang Wei of secretary of round general branch by maths of institute of normal school of graduate student of southwest university Master, the Yangtse River personally assume leadership. To staying behind the art of children grooms basically fasten by this " 3 go to the countryside " the volunteer that serves a group is held the position of, in the activity, mr. Yang and guardian of children staying behind are kind chat, a lot of guardian say frankly, do not be in the home for a long time as a result of the child's parents on one hand, and exist again between great majority guardian and child buy on sb's behalf, communicate hard, the child that this brings about oneself is piquant, corrupt play, do not love to learn, study habit is very bad; On the other hand, they take the child when treasure, "Take be afraid of in the hand flew, put in the mouth to be afraid of changed " , do not know how to guide the child correctly.
Mr. Yang is aimed at the problem that children staying behind appears, one by one offerred him view, the guardian that he mentions the psychological problem of children staying behind to should not rely on them only comes correctional, and more heavy the force that if want,relies on a society. In addition, the psychology that Mr. Yang still puts forward with respect to him children staying behind is bemused, from them the detail respect such as study, life undertakes to them correctional, guide them to grow healthily.
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