Come French study is similar 7 year, my bachelor of nearly 33 years old, already had however take care of the 3 rich experience to 15 years old of children.
Every time I receive a new work, with respect to the children that can discover foreign dot and each country gang fights noisely, call each other brothers. Most child with my feel like old friends at the first meeting. Having a little girl of 4 years old among them is close to me so: Her suck is worn thumb, saw me carefully a little while, serious ground asks: "Your eye is small, long long, can you see clear thing? " saying, she also pulls her eye spin, laughing to say: "You look, I also can be mixed you are same! Xi Xi! " at that time an a bit bigger boy say to her: "What do you know! He sees a thing be no problem, he returns meeting wushu, who to look to still dare hit me after waiting for me to learn with him... " children are mixed so I this completely new person is mixed a little while ripe.
Actually, french child and Chinese child are same, also be recreant, they also fear " foreigner " , but the domestic education of their domestic education and China is different, their parents is held " open mode is taught " idea, from the child very small when, teach them to want society and stranger contact with, want to get used to new environment, should discover the actor defect of strange thing ceaselessly.
And most of our China child appears special before the foreigner be shy with strangers, of this and Chinese family " beware of type is taught " about. Chinese parent often teachs the child so: Follow stranger, new thing contact less, was cheated carefully; The road sees rough intermeddle less, must not ask for trouble; Do not want make public before alien, do not leak oneself information to others easily... what a lot of parents engraft to the child is thinking of a kind of distrust, it is overcautious social principle.
Of course, of China " beware of type is taught " not be without a single redeeming feature, of abroad " open mode is taught " also be not without the risk. On the basis that stipulated for children a few ego protect a principle, should encourage them to know sealed world actively. Besides lets the child communicate and be explored actively only, ability makes what they know truly is danger and deceit.